Online Dating and Sex Coaching
Rethink your dating strategy.
Reach your dating goals.
Profile Edits — Messaging Strategy — Date Examples — Sex Tips
About Brianna
About Brianna
I’m an online dating coach and sex educator based in San Francisco. I’ve worked in sex and dating for a decade, including inventing a sexting bot (Slutbot) that role models how to talk about sex in a fun and healthy way.
Before inventing Slutbot, I created sex education programs for adults, received my Masters in Global Health, and worked with hundreds of clients with sex, dating, and relationship questions.
Through fielding millions of messages from clients and Slutbot users, I’ve seen the patterns people confront. Using this data, I’ll help you optimize your “dating funnel” and strategy to find quality matches.
Together we’ll edit your online dating profiles to include the best photos, videos, prompts, and bios. Unlike other dating coaches, I will go further to ensure you have a plan for dates, conversations, and sex. You’ll have more fun dating than ever before!
Most people find online dating to be a chore.
We’ll rethink your strategy to make it fun through 8 steps:
Your Background
8-steps
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Everyone has different things that worked and didn’t work on past dating apps and dates. I’ll learn your specific goals so that I can tailor advice to you. This is not a cookie cutter experience.
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Dating is not dissimilar from learning how to market yourself. With that in mind, dating apps are just tools to create the best “funnel” for yourself. I’ll give you the data you need to avoid too much disappointment while online dating. This advice has helped hundreds of people feel less vulnerable and more confident while dating.
The Apps!
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Each dating app has a different audience, and together we’ll choose the right app for you. Multiple apps may also be the right choice. I will guide you through the differences of each app and ensure you understand the various vibes and etiquettes of each.
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Without good photos and videos, your bios and messages won’t matter. The photos should tell a story about what dating you will feel like. High quality photos that tell a story will help people notice and remember you through the noise!
If you don’t have the right photos and videos, we can work together with your friends or photographers to ensure you have the right content.
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Jokes or quotes are not going to help people understand who you are. You’re not only your hobbies. A potential date needs to know what you’re looking for and how you like to spend your time.
I’ll help you translate who you are, what you want, and how you spend your time into a warm and positive bio, regardless of the format of the specific app.
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People struggle with what to message, and “how are you” or “hey” isn’t going to cut it. I’ll teach you how to use the other person’s profile to create an engaging conversation. The answers are in the other person’s photos, bio, and interests.
Dating Strategy
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Too many people chat endlessly on the apps and don’t take it offline quickly enough. If you spend too much time chatting online, you will create an idea of this person in your head that may not reflect reality. Moving people to a short, first date will help you focus on people you’re excited about and keep online dating from taking up too much of your free time.
I’ll help you define your first and second date strategy based on your goals around connection and intimacy.
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Through a decade of sex education, I’ve seen about ten pieces of advice around pleasure radically change adult’s sex lives. This is my biggest differentiator from other online dating coaches–I’m also an expert in sex.
This isn’t meant to be sex therapy–just a short amount of knowledge that could entirely change your first time having sex with someone new, which can shift your entire dating trajectory. These pleasure-focused tips will also help you on your dating journey, whether it’s the 10th or 100th date.
Services Below
Book Brianna’s Services
15-minute Intro Call
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We can get to know each other before you purchase time with me. For 15 minutes, we'll discuss your dating history and goals so that I can understand what you're hoping to get out of coaching. I’ll also answer any questions you have about my workshops.
Complete Online Dating & Sex Coach Workshop (2.5 hrs)
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Together we’ll work through all 8 steps to rethink your dating strategy and build your dating profile to ensure it reflects who you are and gets you matches. Before the workshop, you’ll fill out a form so that I can customize the workshop to your needs. The workshop includes:
Discussing dating history and goals
Learning the funnel framework for online dating
Choosing the correct app for your goals
Selecting the best photos and videos
Writing your bio and defining your intentions
Defining your messaging strategy
Planning your dates
Learning my intimacy tips
One Dating App Profile Edit
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If a complete workshop feels too involved, I can review your profile on my own. I’ll select your best photos and videos, edit your bio fully, and give you guidance on preferences. If your app is Hinge, this includes 6 photos or videos with captions, 3 text prompts, 1 poll prompt, and 1 voice prompt. I can adjust this based on your preferred app.
What’s the “dating funnel”?
Online dating is very similar to marketing. It’s important to have a funnel mindset when online dating because otherwise it’s easy to take a ghosting experience or lack of reply very personally. There are generally four steps when it comes to marketing: Awareness, Interest, Consideration, Action. In the context of online dating, Awareness is a match; Interest is texting; Consideration is a date; Action is continuing beyond the first date. There will be a drop off in each step, so you need enough people at the Awareness phase to ensure you get more than one person to the Consideration phase. I’ll help you learn the funnel framework to ensure you move through dating with more confidence and have a strategy to secure enough first dates.
Testimonials Below
Testimonials
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Carolyn B
“Brianna’s guidance not only helped me overhaul my dating profiles to better reflect who I am, but she made me feel confident in getting off the screen and into the world! I’ve had so much more success after the workshop with her.”
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Jay W
“I hadn’t really put much time into my online dating efforts before meeting with Brianna. After our first call I was excited to see what we could put together. She definitely increased the number of matches I got. The “dating funnel” concept was a game changer.”
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Patrick M
“Brianna is the real deal. She approached working together with so much openness and truly got to know me and what I was looking for so we could really customize my profiles. I would recommend meeting with her for anyone looking for a better strategy for dating.”